Those who contemplate the beauty of the
earth find reserves of strength that will endure as long as life lasts.
~Rachel Carson
Gardens are places of refuge. Of inspiration. Of
peace. Where dreams unfold. They are places where tears can be shed in safe
privacy. They are places of solitude where one can be swept away to another
world through a good book. Where restorative naps can be taken. They are places
where one can simply be in the moment, not giving concern to past or future.
Gardeners are a people of hope. We sow the seed or
plant the seedling fully expecting it to grow, bloom in some cases and always
to thrive. Even those with a black thumb, you’ve met them…their gardens just
seem to be more like plant cemeteries…even they surely didn’t expect the plant
to die when they planted it or else they would be knowingly wasting their time.
We plant with expectations for the garden’s future, our future and the good of
its presence to come.
In my work this summer at the nursery I met so many
people who came to make their part of the earth a better place; each with
different reasons for wanting to garden.
Some came to create gardens of healing for
themselves, either physical or emotional recovery. They gardened to keep their
eyes on the good things to come, choosing not to focus on their current
infirmities. More than one came following surgery, leaning on canes or using
walkers, determined to plant, nurture and enjoy just as they’d always done
before. Undeterred, even though their physical condition staunchly cried out
“no”, still they came because they knew the healing that would take place in
their minds, souls and bodies as they spent time in their garden.
Many elderly, now in wheelchairs, came having already
spent decades creating gardens. With them came friends or relatives who would
be doing the much of the work now, giving them the gift of their time, the
benefit of their strength and the outcome of beauty and joy.
Some came to plant memory gardens for loved ones who
had passed away. Many came to plant gardens for weddings planned just months ahead
and one came to plant a faith garden in preparation for the wedding she prayed
would one day take place for her daughter.
I coached people on what to use in bee friendly
gardens, butterfly gardens, hummingbird gardens, songbird gardens, container
gardens, water gardens, dry gardens, shade gardens, gardens for tranquility, moon
gardens, gardens for aromatherapy and gardens for food.
A garden reflects the gardener. That which drives
you, is often indicative of the kind of garden you eventually create. Whether
it’s the theme of the garden; those who wish to feed hummingbirds or honey bees
show their compassionate heart for the creature, or the color scheme you
create; colors you are drawn to that gives you away. Do you love the hot
colors, those that excite like the reds and oranges of the tropical gardens? Or
did your garden end up full of the purples, blues and soft buttery yellows of
tranquility like mine did. I didn’t plan it, I’m just drawn to plants with
blooms of those colors. They are restful, and today they fill my garden.
Gardens everywhere provide well-being in one way or
another, whether by therapy for the soul or nourishing food for the body.
Why do you garden?
In Bloom In My Garden Today: Agastache
foeniculum (anise hyssop), Alyssum, Cyclamen hederifolium
(fall),Daisy(white double,) Daphne caucasica, Echinacea, Eupatorium rugosum
‘chocolate’ (joe pye weed), Fuchsia, Heath (Erica carnea ‘springwood
white’), Kirengeshoma palmata, Nepeta, Rose, old English ‘reine des violettes’,
Salvia
Author's photo of
the Japanese Garden at the Washington Arboretum
2 comments:
Another amazing post! I enjoyed this one very much - especially about the different kinds of gardens people are choosing to create based on reason. What a fascinating concept!
I love brightly colored items in my garden (I think that is was attracted me to the house we live in now - the hot pink bougainvillea, the deep ruby oleander).
Thank you Shari!
You are right, gardens are fascinating when viewed more deeply as to what reasons went into their making. More and more I am understanding how healing they are for people on various different levels.
Thanks for commenting!
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